Sunday, May 08, 2011

CECIL & JANICE

I knew this was gonna be a difficult Mother's day for me, because Kelly and George were both going to be in Aiken with their families, but I should know that God is not gonna let His Becky go uncared for on Mother's Day!
Last night, Janice and Cecil called and invited me over for Mother's Day dinner, so after church, I stopped by their house and God gave me some special words of wisdom from Cecil, after dinner!
Almost, as if my David were telling me himself!
Cecil told me that many folks would probably be telling me what I should be doing in the future, but to let God be my guide, and to remember what David would have me do. If I truly didn't want to do it, then I didn't need to consider it! He knew how much I loved my sweetheart and how much I missed him, and they both even allowed me some tears of joy.
It's so refreshing to have friends who will encourage you to do the best you can, but when the time is right to make a change, then to go ahead and make it, and not worry about it! They both let me voice my concerns about future moves, and the changes that would occur, and Cecil told me exactly what David would have said, and that would be to not do anything for at least a year!
When friends can accept the tears and joy of someone who has lost a loved one, but who is trying hard to make a go of living alone, then, my hat goes off to them! Instead of being upset with my emotions today, they were understanding and offered some wonderful advice.
This was indeed, a Happy Mother's Day for 'ole Bec!
Becky

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